Finding your Guru
Finding your guru could be a lifelong journey. In my lifetime, I’ve had two. Yes, two. How do I know that and what was I looking for? For most Westeners, “guru” is somewhat of a mysterious concept. What is a guru, and why would I want one? I’ll try to simplify the meaning of guru in this blog.
For someone to be your guru, first, you must recognize him or her as giving you inspiration, knowledge and guidance. Gurus will not come to you and say “I am your guru.” This recognition will come from within yourself.
For me, I have always looked for someone who will effectively reset my direction when I am trotting down the wrong path, while at the same time deliver to me an optional path or two that will generate growth. My 2 gurus have been mentors in my career. They have taught me people skills though various mechanisms, and have placed me in growth situations that I would not venture into without their gentle prodding. They’ve helped me with career knowledge, domain expertise, personal confidence, and taking pride and grace with my work.
It’s interesting, my career and mentor path have gone hand-in-hand. I have an emotional block that disables me from working for an organization that does not bring me potential mentors. When I interviewed for my current position and they asked me what type of boss I was looking for, I said, one that is smarter than me. This proved to be double-edged, because my interviewer, who happened to be my future boss said, “well, I look for people who are smarter than me.” I thought I blew it at that moment. What I was really thinking was that I was looking for my mentor, my guru through my employer. I was looking for mental and spiritual growth, as well as an opportunity to learn, through each precious moment of life. Why would I want to spend 8-9 hours a day working for someone that I could not learn from? And why would they hire someone who could not bring talent and knowledge to their organization?
Yesterday, my heart opened to a new mentor, who could very likely be my third life mentor.
Open your heart and find your guru. Hunble yourself and acknowledge that another person could shine light into your life, and your spirit.
Namaste
So we had a good time, we sweated a lot, and Brandon played some great music, and it was really nice practicing next to Greg, but what’s really kind of interesting is that same week — or in that same timeframe — I was really getting kind of concerned because my yoga mat was really starting to smell. And I guess this was bound to happen, because you sweat so much in power yoga.
So one of the things that my son, Greg, does for me (he’s 14 years old) is he loads my iPod Shuffle with music and he calls it the “Mom shuffle.” and so I’ve been listening to these Mom shuffles and I’ve been thinking about the music that I want to play in my CorePower classes — some Elton John, some Pink Floyd, Lyle Lovett, even parts Dan Fogelberg that could work — so keep an eye out for the Ifer shuffle CorePower yoga class. Namaste.
I mean if you try to add up all the things I’m trying to do, an additional 20 hours of yoga practice and training on top of my 40 hours of regular paying job, on top of whoever knows how many hours of little consulting jobs that I can’t seem to kill — (I guess that’s in part my fault because I tend to love it) — and a son, and a … I guess you could call my husband, and two houses, and three dogs, and a cat — and trying to balance some kind of a lifestyle and some fun that I’d like to have — maybe some fall running in Boulder — how am I able to focus?
Anyway, there’s pretty major growth and transition in my life, and I decided to make the yoga CorePower teacher training an intensive part of that transition — to keep my head in a clear space, and also pave the way to a new chapter of my life. I plan to teach yoga, and I’m thinking of relocating to France: I’m a French speaker, and I just absolutely love it out there — talk about being present – it’s really a different pace of life, people take time to smell the roses and taste the wild strawberries, what can I say? — so thinking of taking my five-year-old daughter out there, and giving her the opportunity for an international upbringing, and opening a studio.
And since I made that decision, I found a lot of peace and harmony and, actually, a better way of dealing with my surroundings, because I’m feeling so much better inside. At first, it was very physical attraction, because I’ve always been physically attracted to sports. And then this magical thing came about, where all of a sudden I realized that my mind and spirit was benefiting from it as well.
Hello. My name is Isabella or Isa, and I just started doing the teacher training program. I was inspired through a friend who took me to a class, and ever since then I’ve been addicted — and like to reach people in a physical aspect and teach them through … kind of the same way I’ve been enfolded through yoga. Hope to reach people in that aspect as well.